Sunday 22 May 2011

Trials of Travel

I am back and I had a great vacation! But this is a post about the travel process and as they say life happens when you are making other plans. Some say that when everything goes according to plan, it may make a vacation a little boring, some of the best times and stories come from mishaps and unexpected situations. However, I still want to rant about my latest adventure.
 
As my flight from Barbados to New York was landing, I noticed that the ground was a bit wet, but the weather seemed to be fine otherwise. After slowly waiting to pass through immigration, and then attempting to figure out which terminal I was supposed to be at (with no real direction from any map or other information guide - simply what I was told by the ticket agent back in Barbados), I decided to take the AirTrain to terminal 5, because I think that is what he said. Well it was true, but as I was heading toward security I noticed the flight board listed my connecting flight as cancelled. This must be some sort of mistake, so instead of talking to a ticket agent, I pass through security and head toward my gate, where there are no people and the flight screen is OFF. I then check my email to see that I am now scheduled to fly out Thursday at 3:35pm, did I mention this was Wednesday at 8:00pm. Hmm, this can't be happening, I say to myself. I walk over to the "JustAsk" desk, where I wait behind 2 pairs of cranky people who missed their flight because of their own stupidity after some sort of security breach delayed their flight. I waited patiently, and kept my calm.
 
The lovely employee behind the desk informed me that my flight was cancelled due to weather and that all other earlier flights on Thursday were booked solid. She told me I could find hotel information downstairs near the welcome desk, or attempt to sleep at gate 14 which had 2 "comfy chairs". My only compensation was a $12 meal voucher, that was supposed to ease the annoyance of a now 20 hour layover. Like, I can appreciate my own safety, if a flight is cancelled due to weather, that is fine and I know this is out of the control of the airline. But is a small meal the best you can do over 20 hours? You provide no help in finding accomodations, the earliest flight you can put me on is 20 hours later, like what a joke!
 
After a momentary debate with myself, I realize the price of a hotel room is worth my sanity for the night. I go down to the information center where I am informed that it appears there are no hotel rooms in the area available, but I can try at the curtosy phone. I called over 20 hotels, NOTHING AVAILABLE!!! At this point I had phoned my mother, who was also doing research of her own. Even hotels outside of the airport zone had NO VACANCY. How is this possible, it is a random Wednesday and it didn't seem like an extreme amount of flights were cancelled. I went back and asked the lady about other info for hotels a bit further, or even motels, or B&B's or short term apartment rentals. She looked at me like I was from space. Like WHAT IS YOUR PURPOSE HERE? I need accomodations, and your answer is "oh looks like everything is full". Actually, between her and the other employee, their best advice to me, was to go back to terminal 4, since there would be "more stuff to look at".
 
In the end it all worked out for me thanks to being part of a big Italian family: my mother called my father's aunt in North Carolina, for her son in New York's phone number, she then called him and asked if he knew of anything I could do, place to go etc. His answer was to pick me up and take me back to his apartment and put me up for the night. What a relief. I wouldn't mind spending the night in the airport if I had an early flight, but all night and then all day again. No thanks. If anyone is looking for a business venture.. open another hotel near JFK airport! Or maybe airports should consider setting up some sort of hostel type accomodations for people who did not anticipate having to spend a night in the airport and have no funds for a hotel, especially when there are no hotel rooms available!!
 
Seems like customer service still has a long way to go. At least this happened on my return and didn't cut into my time at the beach. Now that I have crossed Barbados off my list, where will I go next?

Friday 13 May 2011

Message in a Bottle

Well after months of planning and waiting I am finally leaving for my beach vacation. Once all of the actual "traveling" is done, my severe anxiety will subside and I will make the most valiant effort to leave all of my cares behind and just enjoy the moment, relax and bring some serenity to the clusterf*(k that is my brain. A well deserved treat if you ask me!
 
If you need anything, you can send a message in a bottle, I will be otherwise unreachable.
 

 

Wednesday 4 May 2011

Don't Stop

So this is going to be one of the philosophical posts I alluded to in my raison d’ĂȘtre. The timing of this is being inspired by the current status of my life and things that have been going on with other people I know.
First of all, what is existentialism? Human existence. The meaning of life. Subjective reality. What is an existential crisis? Answer: my life.
Lately I have been struggling to feel... anything. I am apathetic about everything. My career is nowhere to be found. My job does not stimulate me, the environment is toxic and the pay is embarrassing. My personal life is dry and boring. It is almost summer, an amazing time to be in Montreal – I am not even sure I care.
I am searching for a fire. The fire within me. I can’t seem to find it and my motivation to look has fizzled. I know I want something, I want change. Big changes. I want to feel alive. I am actively seeking some sort of adventure that may possibly give me new perspective, but there has to be a purpose. I have decided that I am willing to drop everything and just go, but where? And why? I believe that once I find a purpose, the rest will follow.
I should feel better knowing that I am not the only one going through this personal journey. But I don’t. I have been a rollercoaster of emotions lately and I am burning out. I have been doing a great job of picking myself up and dusting myself off. It is getting old and I am tired of falling.
I know things will get better and life goes on and blah blah blah. But I am tired. My patience is running thin and I just need something to help keep me going.
To end this post on a positive note, I will share..
some words of wisdom:
The virtue lies in the struggle, not the prize – Richard Monckton Milnes
and a song:
If you wake up and don’t want to smile
If it takes just a little while
Open your eyes and look at the day
You’ll see things in a different way
Don’t stop thinking about tomorrow
Don’t stop, it’ll soon be here
It’ll be better than before
Yesterday’s gone, yesterday’s gone
                - Fleetwood Mac

Monday 2 May 2011

Election Day

GO VOTE!

It is election day in Canada. While you might think that this is an unnecessary election, and you might be a bit steamed as to why this election came about, it is still your civic duty to vote. In Canada we have a democracy, which means YOU get a say in what happens in our country.

Nothing grinds my gears more than people who choose not to vote or be educated on current politics. You happen to live in a country that gives you the freedom to make a decision. Non voters need to get out from under the rock they live under and realize how fortunate they are to have this opportunity. You may not like this election. You may not find the politics interesting. You might even struggle to understand how the political game works in Canada. Well guess what... I don't care about your excuses. Take the time to figure it out, ask someone to dumb it down for you, whatever it takes, but make a decision and exercise your right to vote.

You are not that special, unique, too dumb, whatever other excuse you can try to make - to not vote. Polls are open all day (also there were 3 days of advanced polls for your convenience). So get off of your ass and go put an X in a bubble and then pat yourself on the back.

Happy voting Canada! Can't wait to see the results tonight.